Monday, February 21, 2011

Agree to disagree... you vs. me

I had a very interesting conversation with one of my friends (more like enemy) this morning on facebook chat...

At the end we had a bit of a difference in opinion about having fun...

I thought I'd just share it with you... I've highlighted my replies in yellow and I've removed a certain part to keep the identities of some of the people we talked about:


hey
11:05am
hey
?
11:08am
Hey sorry kinda busy at the moment
11:08am
with wat
11:08am
work
11:11am
wat you working on
11:13am
Work work... I'm busy subbing News articles at the moment... among other things... multitasking like a crazy person...
11:14am
thats nice hows your sis
11:14am
She's good... and yours
11:15am
a bitch, with ego, but dong well....thank god i dont have to worry bout her having boyfriends, she more interested in school
11:16am
Worry about her and boyfriends??? possessive much???
11:17am
yes, she not gona fuck her future up....wen she 21 she can hav a bf....and yr sis is she single?
11:17am
No
11:18am
damn....there goes my chance...lo(joking)l.and you, have got a other half
11:19am
No
11:20am
you must cum party with me 1 night......at least you can hav a 1 nite stand
11:20am
I have standards thank you...
11:21am
So...there are girls with standards
11:21am
If all they want is a one night stand, they don't have very high standers...
standards
11:22am
so are you wait for yr wedding day
11:23am
I didn't say I was virgin...
11:24am
i didnt ask that....lol
11:24am
It's what you implied
11:25am
oh it does seem that way sowi.....anyway hows _____?

(note: I have removed a tiny bit of the conversation here...)

11:32am
so wat do you for fun, do you go out?
11:34am
I like to keep to myself... Im not really a party go-er unless my closest friends are with... I prefer the odd weekend braai or going to the movies... but most weekends, I spend at home, reading, playing games or watching movies or writing blog posts
11:36am
oh.......thats nice i guess.....but how do you meet ppl and stuff?
11:38am
At the moment I don't... But even if I did go out, what’s the probability of me meeting someone???
11:40am
big......the world is full of ppl......my closest friends i met 4 months ago at a pub....and just last week i made a new best frnd.....but then agen i hav to many best friends........
11:44am
I see... My thing is, "would I be friends with major party go-ers if I myself am not a party go-er???" My kind of a fun evening isn't going to a club, drinking and getting dunk... so why would I seek a friendship with someone who does??? I do understand that not everyone goes to clubs to get drunk, but essentially I need to live and have fun for me, and be around people with similar likes and dislikes as I have... Although I have made great friends with whom I do not share common ground with, but I befriended them through varsit
varsity
not by going out...
11:49am
you dont have to drink to hav fun, dancing and singing and being young......and doing crazy things.....you cant expierence life if you dont try new things.....??????
11:50am
Whats being young got anything to do with it???
I exprience many new things, and I dont get wild...
I'm quite happy the way I do things...
11:53am
lots wen you older you cant do things you can do wen you 20......you dont hav to be wild, you can hav mature crazy shit....i cant explain. Life is to short.
11:54am
That saying is over rated...
Especially when you hear a twenty year old saying it...
Twenty somethings always want to focus on having fun, I'm more interested in developing my career... Fun can happen when I have a stable income
or rather financially secure
11:57am
money and security cant buy you love and fun
11:58am
Well fun isn’t going to look after you when you’re old and cripple.


I never really had a chance to carry on my argument, but I think being responsible is critical this early in life... I feel its more important to have direction, than to aimlessly run around acting out and having a good time...

Although I'm not saying, don't have a good time, I mean, I do go out with my friends to clubs and pubs etc, and I do have a lot of fun doing it, but its not my priority right now... I wont feel comfortable going out and being spontaneous all the time, if I don't feel safe.

I'm a very independent person... I don't need another man in my life to define who I am. I used to be like that (someone who needs another person to live...etc etc etc...), but the problem was I was never in a relationship... To this day I've never had a boyfriend and as much as I want one, I don't really need one. I'm confident now and I'm happy... so I don't see why I need to follow the "fun practices" of other people...
That's just me

Mr Love lace out

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Room of Angels

I just fell in love with these songs. So serene, calm, peaceful yet at the same time creepy, horror-esque with a little bit of mystery...

Maybe I'm just a creepy person, but this music seems to reach into me. I can listen to this on repeat and not feel bored by it...

I love it, makes me want to go to a graveyard or into a haunted house, a ghost town even a cursed island well if there are any...

Silent Hill, Silent Hill, free from sanity, blood to spill;

Silent Hill, Silent Hill, caution with fear, time to kill;

Silent Hill, Silent Hill, caution from thrill, mystery abandoned,

Silent Hill, Silent Hill, run like hell, body and soul disbanded.



Monday, February 7, 2011

My giant banana

First of all, no I am not talking about my penis... although... never mind... people read this blog and I'm supposed to be depressing... Don't want to make you people happy now would I ???

I'm literally sitting at my desk at work looking at my giant banana. I brought the banana to work from  home, so that I could have breakfast. Yes it's that big... I'm sure it counts as three fruits...

Anyway, its 11:40 am now and I have yet to eat the banana... well I don't want to eat the banana... I just want to look at it...

I mean its huge!!! I'm so annoyed at the fact that I never brought my camera with today, to show you guys...

I understand how horrible this must sound to you reading this, but I can assure you the banana is worth it...

(what a stupid blog post... sigh)

Mr lovelace and his giant yellow banana out...